How does one succeed in life?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

A kid threw a stone at my car. I confronted his mom (who was nearby). She said, "You can't prove it was my son." How should I have reacted?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

What thing happened to you as a child that you haven’t let go of to this day?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What factors contributed to Taiwan's economic success compared to Mainland China, despite their close proximity?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Hangs out with loser friends.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Why does my dog keep licking at her privates now? She is 7 years old and has barely started licking there. The vet said she’s fine but she keeps doing that.

What I need from you?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Why do you think most harem anime and manga have lame male protagonists that would be considered losers and pathetic by most people?

That's it for today.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What is the best reply if your boyfriend asks you,"why do you love me?"

Do not set goals—set systems.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

How the Brain Actively Removes Unwanted Memories - Neuroscience News

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What do bad boys know that nice guys don't?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Do you agree that firearms are the most common weapon used in homicides of spouses, intimate partners, children or relatives? Should this data influence gun control policies?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What should I do if I love a girl and she apparently doesn't love me?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What do you remember that 95% of us have forgotten?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Procrastinates a lot.

My wife found I had been on Pornhub. She considers this adultery and wants a divorce. She hasn't touched me in over 6 years. What should I do?

Making more friends is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

How rough can the ferry passage from Hull to Rotterdam be in the autumn ( at the end of October )?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Ask yourself:

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Does not procrastinate.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.